Anzu, FGM v. MGM, And Upcoming Watermelon Sushi Events

Hey Hip Hapa Homeez,

I'm so hapa to hear from so many of you! As promised, each week I'll be posting stories and photos about you and your mixed-race experiences.

This week, allow me to introduce Anzu (aka Anzu Kristina Lawson). A very talented Los Angeles-based musician, actress and comedienne, Anzu is half Japanese and half Caucasian. Check out her story and accompanying pix, below:

"This is my parents', John and Keiko Lawson's, wedding photo taken in Japan. I was born seven months after it was taken. My dad was a G.I. stationed in Japan after the Korean war. My parents are divorced now. There was definitely a language barrier between them, but they managed to make two pretty cool daughters. My father fought prejudice because my mother was Japanese and Pearl Harbor was still fresh in people's minds, especially in Oregon. I remember my mother really craving Japanese food and having boxes of seaweed, noodles, pickled radish and condiments shipped from Japan by her relatives. Back in those days, they didn't have very many ethnic food stores like they do today. The ONE thing my parents had in common was that they both loved music. That passion was something they gave me, from both of them, besides their wonderful genes. I have a single out on itunes that is available under ANZU called TWO WRONGS. It's a rock duet featuring Sonny, the lead singer from the band P.O.D. (Columbia Records)."

Now, back to that FGM (First Generation Multi-racials, or Mulattos) v. MGM (Multi Generation Multi-racials) debate. Here's a response from Chancellor Files:

"I read the Watermelon Sushi World blog, and what Yayoi wrote about the FGM and MGM world that you (Kahlil Crawford) introduced her to. There are serious tensions between the two camps. I feel from what I’m seeing and hearing is that some FGM's are frustrated because there are light-skinned MGM's who look just as mulatto, and sometimes even lighter in complexion, than many biracials. They feel this helps FGM's remain seen as black because people are so used to seeing light-skinned MGM's.

Some FGM's are sad because light-skinned MGM's are lighter than some of them and, therefore, seen as mixed when the darker biracials are just seen as black first and mixed second. This is something that needs to be talked about among mixed-race people who are FGM's and MGM's.

This is why there is a forum so people can discuss these issues. This topic will come up eventually again, and it should."

And, still on that subject, I received the following from AllPeople Gifts:

"Hi Yayoi,

After having read your great article found at your website via the following link

http://watermelonsushiworld.blogspot.com/2009/05/susans-story-fgm-v-mgm-rain-brown-girl.html

in which you discussed the matter of MGM-Mixed and FGM-Mixed lineages, I thought you might be interested in learning about and becoming familiar with, as well as possibly joining, any or all of three (3) Mixed-Lineage discussion groups listed below.

Thus, we would like you to view this memo as a very cordial invitation to take a look at and to perhaps also consider joining and becoming a member (via either ‘active posting’ and/or ‘quiet perusal’) of any or all of the three (3) groups --- as we would be very honored to have you join in with us and our online communities."

The groups are as follows:

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Generation-Mixed

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/MGM-Mixed

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FGM-Mixed

Hey, Hip Hapa Homeez, we're getting close to the Mixed Roots Film and Literary Festival taking place in Los Angeles in June. Don't forget to stop by to check out our Mixed-Race Relationships panel including Sam Cacas, Sachiko Jackson and Ann Carli. If you'd like a program schedule, drop me an email at hiphapa@comcast.net

That same weekend, Watermelon Sushi producers will be auditioning talent for our film. If you haven't already sent us your reels, headshots and resumes, it's too late. But if you'd like to be considered for a role without auditioning, go to the Hip Hapa Homeez group on Facebook for breakdowns. Remember, rapper Miwa Lyric will be in the house!

Oh, and my good friend Amina asked that I post the following:

"Share your experience as a person of mixed heritage with MixedChild.com, an online community celebrating the achievements of multiracial people. All are welcome - from childhood experiences to dating, beauty, family and inspiration for your art/career– tell us your story!

Contact:

info@mixedchild.com

Please include your name, contact details (email or phone number) and best time to reach you . We can either arrange a phone interview or you can send us an essay written in first-person."

Until next time, I am and will always be...

Your Hip Hapa,

Yayoi

Not About Me, But About You

Hey! I think I'm finally connecting with you--my Hip Hapa Homeez--for real, and that makes me feel so HAPA! Thanks for showing me the love.

This week, I want to introduce you to S.B. of London (pix to your left). Besides promoting our film by purchasing a Watermelon Sushi Hapa*Teez t-shirt, S.B. also shared some interesting thoughts about our biracial agenda. On the Hip Hapa Homeez group page on Facebook, I had posted a statement about the One Drop Rule, and questioned why the press was so eager to label President Obama a black man when he is biracial. S.B. then responded with her belief that some biracial people tend to shun their black side. FYI, S.B.'s mother is white English, and her father is Nigerian (Igbo).

Rather than attempt to explain what I think she meant, I'll just re-post our dialogue here:

S.B.:

Isn't Barack Obama black/African American?

The mixed-raced community always makes a massive deal about embracing all parts of your heritage. But in reality, that seems to mean that you don't embrace any. Especially, especially not any black/African heritage you might have. It is preferred (in my experience) that you refer to yourself as "mixed-race", "biracial", "multiracial", etc., without ever acknowledging the different races that make up that heritage.

I think Barack Obama should be able to describe himself (and be described) as black. Because he is black, AND white. Both as opposed to neither.

I don't think it's the One Drop Rule unless the argument is that having black heritage EXCLUDES you from being anything else. That blackness (or non-whiteness) taints you.

But that's just my opinion.

And, here's Your Hip Hapa's response:

I don't know if you grew up in London, but the phrase "One Drop Rule" takes on a whole different meaning here in the states as it applied to slaves who were fathered by white slavemasters yet denied any claims to that white heritage, especially because it involved property and money. Slaves were considered property. Therefore, a child of a white slavemaster was still half slave and ruled by the one drop of black blood that would keep him or her always a slave first and foremost.

As for your argument about mixed-race folks not wanting to embrace their black heritage, I don't think that's true. Often, the black community doesn't allow us to embrace other parts of ourselves. Most recently, there was a big stink about the U.S. Census. Because mixed-race people were allowed to choose more than one race (and thereby acknowledging both of their parents for the first time in the history of the Census), a lot of black communities were upset over losing numbers. If you don't know, higher numbers in communities means that you're awarded more federal dollars for your programs.

Of course, it's up to Obama to define his racial identification. But clearly, his white mother and white grandparents raised him. Certainly, he was highly influenced by them culturally. For him to deny them, would make me suspicious of his political agenda.

And, here's S.B., again:

I would never deny that Barack Obama is biracial or mixed-race. Regardless of who raised him, it is a fact that he is biracial and I would never say that he should deny his biracial heritage.

All I meant to say is: The fact that he is biracial should not exclude him from being black. He should not be discounted from the ranks of African Americans merely because he cannot claim pure, 100% black racial heritage. Who can? Why can’t he be seen as being ALL that he is? Black, white, mixed-race, Kenyan, Hawai'ian, Kansan, Illinoisan, politician, husband, father, president…

As a European--and not an American--I do not claim to understand the nuance of American racial politics, and I hope that I have not offended anybody.

I do think that my argument that mixed-race people do not want to claim their black heritage is accurate at least here in Britain if not in the United States. At least I can say that I have provided some insight on life as a mixed-race person in Europe (it is not as depressing as it sounds!).

And, one more time, Your Hip Hapa replies:

I appreciate your opinions. As far as mixed-race people not wanting to claim their black heritage, though, I have seen that happen with certain black folks, too. I have lived in areas that are predominantly white, and experienced black people literally shun other black folks so as to not "offend" whites or have whites think that they are just like any other stereotyped black person. I call it "self-hating", and I've seen that occur among Asians, Latinos, and Indigenous folks, too. I have rarely seen it happen, though, in large, diverse, cosmopolitan cities so I think there's some idea of a "safety factor" involved in taking that type of stance.

Okay. So, what do you readers think? Do mixed-race people with black ethnicities tend to shun that part of themselves? Drop us a line at hiphapa@comcast.net and tell all!

Also, last week I discussed the so-called FGM v. MGM battle. FGM stands for First Generation Mulattos (or Multi-racials) and MGM are Multi-Generational Mulattos (or, Multi-racials). FGM's are repped by folks like Halle Berry who can point to a white mother and black father, while a prominent MGM would be Vanessa L. Williams--with two light-skinned parents identified as black, but who is clearly mixed from somewhere in the past. Today, I received an invite from AP to join several multi-lineage yahoo groups based on that blog. I'll post their links after I check them out. However, I will list this one that I actually had the chance to visit:

http://www.diversityinc.com/public/3469.cfm

We're getting close to scheduling talent auditions for Watermelon Sushi, so if you haven't sent us your submission yet, you have about a week. Check out the Hip Hapa Homeez group page on Facebook for breakdowns. And, sign up to join our group while you're there!

Also, the panel I'm presenting, Mixed-Race Relationships, at the Mixed Roots Film and Literary Festival is gearing up. Here is a link to an article penned by Sam Cacas who will be one of the panelists:

http://www.asianweek.com/2009/05/16/black-asian-unity-the-increasing-blasian-numbers/

And, let me know if you'd like me to forward you a copy of the MRFLF program.

My new feature is to introduce a Hip Hapa Homee every week, so if you have a photo of your family, especially your parents, and would like to be showcased on this blog, hollah at hiphapa@comcast.net

Until next week, I am fiending to be...

Your Hip Hapa,

Yayoi